This topic has been silence for a while, but my project has made some big steps. I abandoned my previous approach and went full analog!
My amplifier has two inputs: Rune audio and my TV. Therefore I made some electronics to turn my amplifier on if any of the two plays music and turn it off after roughly 20 minutes without music. Next to that I use a signal relay to send the right audio signal to my amplifier.
Now I won't have to touch my amplifier ever again!
For anyone that also wants to build it, here is the schematic:

And a picture of the result:

I tested it and it works nicely after some small changes. Hopefully I have it build in a case next week. More pictures will come.
PS: A lot of credits go to Rod Elliott for his nice designs that I used:
Audio gear: RuneAudio on Raspberry Pi 2 + Dr. DAC nano, Marantz pm66se, Avalon Avatar