First off i am a total pi noob, i just bought a pi yesterday just for Rune, so bear with me please

Installation went fine and i am very happy with the results so far but i have just one issue and i hope there is some sort of easy fix for this.
So i noticed my external hd keeps running even if rune is inactive.
I didn't see a way to turn the hdd to sleep automatically, is there?
So i thought fine, no big deal, there is an on/off switch on the usb disk so i just turn the disk on when i need it.
But the problems that occurs then is that 1. the hd gets recognized again as a new disk while the old version prior to turning it down keeps listed in the Usb storage list, while being inactive.
2. The disk has to get scanned again which takes some time while i can't access most of the folders.
How do you solve this?
Thanks, Jan