Now I got my rpi in the high, high end - I went insane and removed the crystal at the rpi and connected a new clock from http://www.newclassd.com/index.php?page=24&hv=1, and all the details in the music just came out. Remarkable better top, and the hole picture just got tighten up
It couldn't be done without Lars Clausen from newclassd who was wiling to make a custom reference clock for the rpi at 19.2mhz